Tarra Christoff – Marry Yourself – Creating Sacred Vows for Self-Love – via Tiny Buddha

About Tarra Christoff

Tarra Christoff, MA is a sacred path career coach and the founder of The Marry Yourself Telesummit. She leads Marry Yourself retreats around the globe and has a background in depth psychology, creative arts, and Reiki energy healing.  Visit http://www.marryyourselftelesummit.com.

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“You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~Buddha

I married myself at the age of 37 in a quiet ceremony of one near a waterfall in Big Sur, California.

I had prepared my “soul vows.” These vows were my deepest commitment to love, cherish, and deeply care for all parts of myself in sickness and in health, until my time on the planet comes to an end.

My soul vows became an ode to honoring my highest self always, and remembering that seeking love outside myself will never bring fulfillment unless I possess radical, unshakable love for myself.

With that knowing, these are some of my Soul Vows:

I vow to comfort myself during times of hopelessness, despair, depression, disillusionment, or any difficulty that arises.

I vow to be my Beloved always and in all ways.

I vow to never settle or abandon myself in romantic partnerships again.

I vow to live in the faith my life unfolds in mysterious divine perfection.

I vow to honor my spiritual path and create an amazing life whether I am ever legally married or not.

I vow to honor my calling and live my life as a work of art.

Some vows were tender and some fierce—some private, and some to be shared with the world.

All vows were an expression of my soul’s calling and a deep desire to love myself and care for myself at the deepest possible level in all areas of my life.

These vows were the gateway into a life that was deeper, richer, and more connected to my soul’s guidance.

Nearly nine months later, I have a birthed a new life. Many of the visions I had for a decade are starting to come true.

These visions include attracting a loving partner, spending time in my beloved Bali, and feeling a deeper sense of purpose and passion for my work.

I believe that this had everything to do with saying “I do” to giving myself the love and affection that I desired from a beloved.

The life that I now have is beyond my wildest dreams.

Here are four ways to say “I do” to you.

1. Write your soul vows.

You have a deeply cherished vision for your life, and your soul vows are a way to get it out of your soul and on paper. Mine were simple, but you could express them in any way that works for you. You could create a video, write a poem, use fancy writing, or maybe create a sacred altar for your words. Throw yourself a party. Register for gifts! Why not?

2. Create a vision board.

The soul speaks in images. Your soul vows may be magnificently revealed in a vision for your life. Carve out some time to craft a vision board from images that resonate with you. Allow yourself to be intuitively drawn to these images and don’t rely on your rational mind.

3. Sacred jewelry.

Procure a piece of jewelry that has heart and meaning for you. My object of art was literally a silver heart necklace inscribed: “You make the world a better place.”

My best friend actually created a sacred jewelry business after marrying herself. She’s finally found her path after years of meandering. That’s what is possible when you choose to marry yourself. I have also known men who marked this commitment with a sacred ring.

4. Be witnessed in your sacred vows.

I had a solo ceremony at a retreat center in Big Sur, but it was immediately followed by wine with friends. However, I’d recommend taking it to the next level—perhaps a ceremony with a few close friends? Find a way to have others acknowledge this transformation.

After my self-commitment ceremony, I realized that the real work was to start to love all the places that I had not fully loved myself. I needed to befriend the parts of me that were needy, scared, ashamed, or simply in need of my care instead of my criticism.

And while the marrying myself was a lovely starting place, it was really just the beginning. In the wise words of Rumi, “Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”

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Indigo Light, Alexander – Why is Loving Yourself so Challenging?


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n this video, Alexander covers the balance of self-love and faith necessary at this time. We are here to grow, experience, and learn how to appreciate and support ourselves enough to rise above fear and uncertainty, and create something beautiful and new. Love is the basis of all life in the Multiverse.

22:22 “Synchronicity: What is the Universe Trying to Tell You?” 11:11 During this 80 minute event, we will dive deep into the topic of synchronicities, the etheric language of the Multiverse, and learn how our entire physicality exists to communicate messages from the ether continuously. We will explore the topic from different angles, and work on mindfulness regarding what these myriad messages mean to us individually. Through this, we will be able to understand what it means to truly listen and expand our perception of the signs Source sends our way daily. Alexander will cover the topic of the energetic language of the Universe, as well as the metaphysical components of what we call our physical reality. The time for our full awakening is here. This begins from within, in the silence of our being, as the veil is lifted and we begin to identify things that have, for so long, been elusive. We look forward to having you present.

Through this event, we will cover the tools and understanding necessary to properly integrate the powerful frequencies enveloping our planet at this time. These are actively asking for a fluid passage through our energetic vessels in order to settle within our DNA. What we perceive as symptoms during upgrades and activations is often down to resistance, and fear, manifesting on a subconscious level that prevents us from being in acquiescence. This prevents us from allowing ourselves to be filled with light. We will learn how to work with Guidance, LOVE, and energetic tools, through this guided event and meditation. The more we release and embrace our gifts, the more powerful we become. So many of our gifts lay dormant, waiting to be awakened through this process. The time for this is now. Email us at indigolight2222@gmail.com for the recording.

Lee Harris – Your Self-Love Tool Kit – via Galactic Connection


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Published on May 14, 2019

What is self-love?

⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s a question that I struggled with for many years myself in my own personal life. ⁣⁣⁣⁣I definitely knew self-destruction as much as I knew self-love. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

What I’ve come to notice in working with tens of thousands of people all over the world is that we all fall somewhere between self-doubt, self- judgment and self-love and self-elevation.

I created Your Self-Love Toolkit to help you cultivate self-loving practices and bring higher energies into your daily life. It looks at what self-love is, how it can show up in your life and also what the benefits of it are not only for you, but also for everyone around you.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

This audio guide includes 11 short and simple recordings you can easily access whenever you feel you need a lift, or to get back into the habit of being more self-loving.

Every audio file is streamable and downloadable so you can listen to the teaching anywhere you go.

Check it out here: http://bit.ly/your-self-love-toolkit

Patricia Cote – Robles – Vlog 104 – Honoring Our New Self Image by Taking Care of Our Self

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Published on Mar 5, 2019

Mike Quinsey – Higher Self Message – 2-15-19 – Steve Beckow @ Golden Age Of Gaia

GOLDEN AGE OF GAIA

Mike Quinsey’s Higher Self Message, February 15, 2019

You have an expression that the world is your oyster and it is true, and the pearl inside is you. After so many lives of struggle and a multitude of challenges you stand today on the steps of Ascension. You have held your heads up high and always risen up after the more trying experiences. In some ways it is as well you cannot remember all of your earlier experiences as they would weigh heavy on your mind.

Of course they were interspersed with lives that were not so demanding, but the whole time the emphasis was on your evolution. Always the degree of challenge you were given was with your approval, and we never try to advance you too quickly. In fact it is you who are often so keen to push yourselves ahead and we warn you against going for too much, as even with our support it is you who have to perform. There would be no gain for you if we did more than help you along with our advice.

At this time you really do not grasp what a great achievement you have made in passing the marker. We are still rejoicing and full of admiration for your fortitude and intent to keep going regardless of the tasks ahead. You were chosen for the opportunity to prepare yourselves for Ascension, because we rightly believed you had the tenacity and strength of character to be successful. With freewill some souls have not applied themselves to their tasks, and sometimes lacked the determination to succeed, perhaps having tired of the demands upon them.

Never mind there is always another opportunity coming your way, there is no urgency but we do try to push you along as you are on the verge of Ascension. We want you to be a success as so much now awaits you that is a total change from what you have been used to experiencing. The good times are soon to begin and the chaos that abounds on Earth right now will end. Follow through the logic of stopping nuclear wars and realise that it is the beginning of the end for violent confrontations. You may rest assured that the weapons of war will be silenced, and it can be easily achieved.

We tell you these things realising that some souls have the expectation of things changing too quickly for the degree of negativity that has to be cleared from Earth. You get help from many sources of which you are unaware. Know that your Galactic family oversee your progress and are never far away. If needed, they could arrive on Earth in an instant so you are perfectly safe from any outside interference.

The beautiful Avians watch over you and their presence ensures that no outside interference can take place. They have an extra interest in your wellbeing and help mankind in ways you are never aware of, and very much like the Pleiadians are close to you. You owe much to them for their lasting love for Humanity and the Pleiadians in particular are your family.

Do not limit your visions for the future, as you will be pleasantly surprised at how much happens to you that is uplifting, and place your sights firmly on your path to becoming a Galactic Being. It may be well into the future but is your destiny and you aim high in all you do. As you sometimes say “The best is yet to come” and how true that is so keep your focus strongly on your chosen path, knowing that at every turn you will be getting help and direction from those who have such love for you. Remember that now is the time you can drop your karma as you are in charge and choose the path you wish to take.

As you lift up spare a thought for those souls who volunteered to play the roles of the dark Ones. Just like you they are birthed with all they need that allows the outworking of their life plan. Each has a role to play and they show you the extent to which they can challenge the Light, and they have been quite successful. Your role has been to rise up above such negative energies, and maintain your Light and act accordingly.

Stand on the outside and look in and you surely must agree that you have at times been tested to the limit. The old ways and days are all but finished and you will no doubt admit that your experiences have made you all the stronger. Think of plays in the theatre, they finish and when the curtain drops and re-opens the cast line up together, and often link arms as they bow to the audience to take their applause.

Of course life on Earth is for real, but bear in mind that each soul’s life plan is organised in such a way that karma is cleared, although sometimes there are dear souls who make sacrifices simply out of their great love for you. The most obvious one was Jesus who willingly gave his life, to help Humans find the love, and understanding that was missing from their lives on Earth.

What a wonderful arrangement exists in Spirit that allows for more experienced and evolved souls to help those following in their footsteps. It follows on as you rise up into even higher vibrations and you can always call upon highly evolved souls for help. The system is well tried and tested because as you may realise it has been operating for a long, long time. The souls that have gone before you have much experience to call upon and can very accurately predict what you will do as you evolve.

You must have heard the expression that there is nothing new in the world, and now you can perhaps understand why that is so. All combinations of circumstances have been tried time and time again and of course in the higher dimensions all is in the present and you can experience just as you choose. For example you can go back in time to any period you wish and re-live experiences there again.

Dear Ones, accepting that “all is in the now” is probably too much for you to absorb and recall every detail of your experiences. Yet as your consciousness expands so your memory becomes expansive, so much so you can tune into any experience that you wish to recall.

As you move out of the lower vibrations so your recollection of events will improve. Everything that has happened in your current cycle is still recorded in the ethers, and you could go back and put something right that lives in your memory. Fortunately you will progress at a pace that suits you, so you should not be overwhelmed by the responsibilities that you carry.

Let your vision of the future hold fast and as you do so you will be helping it to manifest at the earliest time by raising the vibrations. The Photon Belt is also part of your upliftment and you are well on the way to your goal, and in the not too distant future great Beings will again appear on Earth to guide you.

I leave you with love and blessings, and may the Light brighten your days and path to completion. This message comes through my Higher Self.

In Love and Light.

Mike Quinsey.

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MATT KAHN – A Glimpse Into 2019 – 1-1-19 – Suzanne Maresca @ Golden Age Of Gaia

GOLDEN AGE OF GAIA

For so many years (and lifetimes), we’ve done the work, cleared the patterns and unraveled the beliefs. We’ve judged ourselves for our sensitivities, untangled the web of our familial conditioning and ancestral lineages, and even went to war with our own egos until loving ourselves unconditionally revealed the end game of sweet relief we’ve all been waiting for.

We’ve been there, done that, got the t-shirt, and even sold it at a garage sale.

All of this to say that we, as the way showers, light workers, empaths, Earth angels, and love warriors of the planet are entering the new calendar year more authentic, allowing and aligned with the new energies of 2019.

Since 2019 adds up to 12, which then adds up to 3, 2019 serves as a time of deeper spiritual integration as your human self, soul, and the Universe come into balanced grounded harmony through the power of 3, which is the number of the Holy Trinity.

2019 is where your deepest soul’s essence and highest life purposes emerge in awareness with synchronistic support from the Universe to bring your dreams to life.

Your role, of course, is to keep loving yourself, not because there are so many things left to clear but now to allow your self-love practice to expand your field and refine your alignment with the higher waves of energy that we used the past few years to become more familiar with a higher vibrational level.

In honor of this theme of integrating your soul into physical form, the Universe has named 2019 “The Year of the Thriving Light Worker”. It is where those of you who have been shining the brightest begin to feel, experience, and know your true worth and value within a Universe that can support your mission, accelerate your contributions and re-create your reality to be as nourishing to your heart and as fulfilling to your soul as the vibration of love you bring to the world– even if pains, heartaches, hardships, patterns, and symptoms still linger.

I welcome your attendance at each 2019 event, where we can unite in-person (or via livestream, now available!) to resolve your concerns and transform your circumstances — once and for all.  I also invite you to join Angel Academy 9 and warmly welcome all of you who have already registered. I am honored to help you through this rapid transition at a remarkable, miraculous and joyful rate — all in aligned accordance with your soul’s contract in the Akashic Records.

May you enter 2019 more grateful to be alive and faithful in the will of your soul’s infinite power as you step across the threshold into the long-awaited Ascension timelines of 5D consciousness. You will still exist in a world filled with all the friends, family and familiarities you know and love. Life will just unfold with greater precision and feature more nourishing relationships as you view your reality from a more heart-centered perspective.

Let our celebration begin!

All for the love of all,

Matt Kahn