SELACIA – Ascended Masters and You Across Time – by Selacia – 5-8-16

SELACIA   –   Ascended Masters and You Across Time – by Selacia   –   5-8-16

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Ascended Masters you first knew lifetimes ago could be around you again now. Why? First, it’s Wesak season when such beings interact with humanity in more tangible ways. Second, because of your spiritual path this lifetime, you are awakening to long bonds with key Ascended Masters.

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These bonds are not related to religion or your religious training in this or previous lives. The beings like Jesus and Kuan Yin who became enlightened were not focused on creating a religion. The level of enlightenment they reached transcends all human-constructed religions. There is no dogma, no punishment, no exclusion, no separation, and above all no fear.

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Ascended Masters do not set themselves on a pedestal. They were human, evolving into an ascended state over time through a series of spiritual transformations. Even now, these beings continue to ascend into higher states of being. Being of service is one way they evolve.

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Past Lives and Ascended Masters
There are countless ascended beings and many of them are little known outside relatively small esoteric circles. Yes, there are well-known Masters like Jesus and the Buddha. Tapihritsa, however, is an example of a being known mostly in Tibetan Bon Buddhist circles. An ordinary Tibetan, in the 8th Century he became fully realized and achieved the Rainbow Body of Enlightenment, leaving no physical remains.

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Most enlightened beings lived very long ago, coming from diverse traditions and parts of the world. Given your own series of past lives, chances are that you were introduced to teachings of one or more beings that today we refer to as Ascended Masters. Wherever you were born this life, consider that you likely had past lives in places like the Far East, the Middle East, and Egypt. It could have been in one of those lifetimes that you first formed a spiritual bond with a being like Kuan Yin or Buddha.
Relevance for Today

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Why are these past connections important now? The times we live in are challenging. Much is at stake for each of us personally and for the future of our planet. We are spiritual beings at our core, and to prevail we must connect with the higher aspect of ourselves. This means the part of us grounded in our spiritual selves – that part of us that is eternal and transcends time. We must learn to become integrated whole beings that can rise above division and separation to express love.

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Our enlightenment journey in many ways is a solo one. However, we are not meant to journey alone. We in fact progress more quickly when we reach out for help and guidance. Pride must be put aside if we are to grow.

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Just like a best friend who helps you laugh and get things in perspective when things get rocky, spiritual guides can help you stay on course.

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While there are many kinds of spiritual guides, Ascended Masters can be very helpful allies. They can help you see where you are stuck. They can nudge you to change course when you are about to go down an unfruitful path. Vast blessings can unfold when you open yourself to this assistance.

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Tools to Connect
To connect with an Ascended Master guide this Wesak season, begin with what you know and what you sense. You are intuitive, after all, and you may recall resonating strongly with a particular guide. If you feel a connection when you hear the name Kuan Yin, trust that.

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During inner contemplation and meditation process, invite an awareness of your guide. You could request it by asking for Kuan Yin or the most appropriate guide. Allow spirit to orchestrate.

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Remember that the veils between dimensions are thinner during Wesak season. Use this time, therefore, to mindfully connect with spirit and the help of specific spirit guides. They don’t have to be Ascended Masters, of course, but consider inviting in that help as well.

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Attending events focused on Wesak or the Ascended Masters can help you go even deeper with your connections – building a bond of trust and confidence. There is a learned human tendency to doubt what one knows and what one senses from spirit. Sometimes it can feel like you are just making things up or that it’s just your own voice validating what you want to hear. Question those feelings when you have them. Ask to know truth and to honor truth when you hear it.

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Trust that the enlightened beings who walked the Earth before know your challenges. They know where you sit now, and how confusing it can be to navigate the unknowns of these times. Trust that your spiritual support team is right beside you. If you pay attention, you will notice their nudges and reminders of how much you are loved. Hold those jewels inside your heart this Wesak season.

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Copyright 2016 by Selacia – author of Earth’s Pivotal Years, healer, and teacher * All Rights Reserved * www.Selacia.com * Feel free to share these articles with your friends and post to your blog or website as long as you include this copyright line and the full article text.

Vows from Past – Past Life Vows and You Now – by Selacia – Earth’s Pivotal Years – 9-18-15

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Energy shifts like those happening now can be unsettling – so much changing so fast. One blessing perhaps percolating beneath the surface is a sudden flash of insight about a very old issue you have been unable to resolve.

Eclipse and even Mercury Retrograde cycles can trigger such insights. It’s like a spotlight shines on incongruences and old patterns previously undecipherable. Knowing in advance that the next couple of months offer this potential can help you get to the end of the road with a dilemma perhaps lifetimes old!

Awareness is like a key that helps you stay awake to a door just ahead. When you act on what you know, actively exploring things, the key opens the door.

Do you have one of those issues that just won’t go away – no matter what you do – impervious to any remedy you have applied?

DNA Healing

Consider for a moment that perhaps the roots of your issue are very old, going back centuries in time. If you have experienced DNA healing and related spiritual healing modalities, you are familiar with challenges a person can have over numerous lifetimes as his or her soul learns key lessons and sometimes takes on karmic patterns. Once in a while, a soul will choose to take on a huge karmic debt to both evolve and help humanity.

Choices like these oftentimes translate into oaths and vows – people promising or pledging to do or be something specific. For thousands of years, in fact, oaths and vows were common throughout society.

Religious Vows

Quite often there was a connection with religion – like oaths of poverty and vows of celibate chastity. Women entering monastic life, for example, commonly took over 300 vows to be fully ordained.

Secular Vows

Not all oaths and vows relate to religion. Some involve a profession, such as the Hippocratic Oath. Others from past centuries include the Pauper’s Oath, a sworn statement by a person that he or she has no money or property.

Individual Vows

Still others are those an individual makes, either during a lifetime or even in between lives, pledging to do or not do something specific.
If you made such an oath or vow before this life, chances are you do not remember it today.

Vows from the Past & You Now

Why would you care about an oath or vow made long ago? To be sure, if you were a priest vowing poverty, you did not need money for secular things. Likewise, if you were a commoner taking the Pauper’s Oath, you were simply conforming to societal laws by stating your circumstance.

Fast forward to now. If you took such an oath or vow in your past life, it was recorded in your DNA and came with you over the lifetimes since you made it. Vows like that are not always active, but can be stimulated by situations – like an economic crash or losing a spouse who was the family provider. When that happens, even if you are good with money and never had money issues before, you could experience struggle with money.

Lifetimes-Old Patterns

Similarly, let’s say you had a series of challenging lifetimes with a certain group of people. Perhaps you were forced or otherwise convinced to go along with crazy scenarios of this group. Then, during one lifetime just before this one, you vowed that when you came across this group and its crazy energy again, you would be the one to step forward and stop the craziness for all time. Perhaps in this life you have encountered these people again, not understanding why you would be magnetized into their circle. Then, over time with self-realization and moving through energy cycles like we have now, you finally get the message.

You actively explore what that message means – the who, the what, the how, and the why. As you look at the bigger picture of your dilemma, you finally have a context for the craziness. You are encouraged to finally understand your long struggle and to see that the end is in sight. You have the key to the door!

Vows to Use Specific Gifts & Knowledge

Another type of vow commonly made before this lifetime is one involving the use of specific gifts and knowledge. Such vows can relate to a past atrocity witnessed firsthand. Perhaps you experienced this and learned from it, understanding how it could be prevented. If so, you may have vowed to eradicate such injustices you saw in the future. Today, perhaps not fully understanding why, you have been fiercely passionate about a modern-day atrocity. This may translate into a strong desire to do something – like working with abandoned animals or helping a certain group of disadvantaged people.

Vows involving use of specific gifts can also relate to something you mastered another lifetime – like singing or design. Perhaps in between last lifetime and this one, you on a soul level vowed to use your gift in this key significant lifetime.

Early this life you might have had an interest in developing this gift, but circumstances may have prevented you from acting on that interest. Today, perhaps you are at some kind of crossroads with your life work, in part because this past life vow is in your energy field awaiting your discovery.

If this example resonates with you or catalyzes other knowing, be sure to check in with your higher wisdom about the most appropriate next steps. Something wonderful could be waiting for you on the other side of the door!

Copyright 2015 by Selacia – author of Earth’s Pivotal Years, healer, and teacher * All Rights Reserved * http://www.Selacia.com * Feel free to share these articles with your friends and post to your blog or website as long as you include this copyright line and the full article text.

Selacia – Soul Agreements and Living Now – 3-12-15

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March 12, 2015

With times this intense and next week’s fiery Equinox and other energy events just around the corner, you may have asked yourself more than once: “Did I really sign up for this?!” Consider that this question is much more than a rhetorical response to these crazy times. In fact, contemplate how this idea is coming from a deep place within you, a wise part of you that understands why you chose to be alive at this pivotal time in history. Consider that this quantum part of you, having boundless foresight, orchestrated a series of soul agreements that led you to now.

If this sounds too outside the box, continue reading for the bigger picture. Life events are not random – they often occur because of soul agreements you made long ago. These usually are not conscious and they cannot be analyzed or approached in a linear way.

Agreements Made Long Ago

Some of these agreements are made on the inner planes between lifetimes and others are made in past lives. Not all directly involve other people – some simply relate to your soul’s path and destiny. The journey of your soul, of course, is impacted by both your own agreements and those you make with others.

Examples:

1. If you lived in a previous revolutionary time, you could have made an agreement at a soul level to return to Earth to make changes through peaceful means.

2. Before coming to Earth the first time, having foresight of humanity’s development, you could have agreed to incarnate numerous times to help create a loving world.

3. If you were in love with someone in another lifetime, unable to marry, you and the other person could have agreed to come together again in a future life.

4. If you were part of a group of people oppressed in a past life, you could have agreed to reincarnate together at a future time to reverse the oppression.

 5. If your larger role this life is that of divine changemaker, being at the forefront of changes for a better world, your soul agreement could involve being born in a specific year to a certain family and with circumstances that help catalyze your beneficial connections and soul expression.   

Why We Forget

These are just a few examples of soul agreements people have, played out in the background during everyday lives. Why don’t we remember them?

First: it’s part of the human condition to have amnesia about the past. No one really knows why that is. Perhaps part of the “why” can be seen at the end of the journey, when we are merged with the divine and our ego cannot get us off track.

Second: Many human experiences cannot be fully unraveled while themes are playing out and people are becoming self-actualized. Certain things must be learned and mastered, and key qualities like kindness and patience are developed through experience over a number of lifetimes.

Third: Soul agreements are made by the soul, not the human personality. They come from a higher place of vision and cosmic knowing that takes into account things a person cannot know fully during a human life.

Benefits of Understanding Soul Agreements

Soul agreements often are mysterious, but you can benefit from understanding the ones impacting you most in this life. This can help you to better grasp your larger purpose for being here. Knowing more about what is influencing you today can provide comfort and inspiration. You also may find it easier to connect the dots involving key relationships and life events.

Spirit works on a need to know basis. Remember this when you are exploring soul agreements. In a quantum sense, all knowledge about you and your soul’s path is in the akashic records stored within your DNA.

Typically how an agreement can come to light is through a life experience – some kind of challenge, issue, or big question a person cannot solve but is important to self-actualization this lifetime. When a person is actively engaged in self-healing of such an issue and the timing is right to discover an agreement, it will show up in the person’s field. It may surface to awareness through a dream or in a meditative process.

Connecting the Dots

Here are just a few examples of soul agreements people can have. As you read over these, and perhaps reread the ones cited above, invite your Higher Self to reveal things about your own soul agreements.

Birth Family: To be born into a certain family in order to experience an old dysfunctional pattern once more, during historical times when the pattern is easier to face and finally heal on all levels
Twins: To be born as a twin of someone who was a trusted loved one in another lifetime, the twin bond this life helping in some key way with the soul’s development

Best Friends: To be born in this pivotal lifetime, becoming best friends with one or more people playing key roles in the success of achieving one’s life mission.

Colleagues and Bosses – Industries: To be born with skills leading to work with key people in industries needing changes, and growing spiritually through the interactions; similarly, to have opportunities to work within society’s dysfunctional sectors and industries in order to affect positive changes

DNA Healing to Identify Soul Agreements

A skilled DNA healing practitioner can help you identify such agreements.Remember: divine timing is a factor in the discovery process. You cannot force it with your human will.

Identification of a soul agreement can help you with self-understanding and accelerate your spiritual progress. Keep in mind, though, that soul agreements are different from belief systems and vows held within the DNA.

Example: A soul agreement that led you to becoming best friends with someone is separate from patterns involving belief systems from your past that can hinder close bonding with that friend. Those beliefs need to be explored and healed separately within the DNA before you can benefit most from the friendship.

Keep in mind with all situations: You are divine and there is a divine plan for your life. Many things and relationships cannot be seen in their entirety while you are immersed in them. Learn to be okay with that and to let go of demanding quick results or instant answers. Trust that when the time is right, all will be revealed and you will be at peace.

Copyright 2015 by Selacia – author of Earth’s Pivotal Years, healer, and teacher *All Rights Reserved*

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Selacia – Wise Navigation of March Energies – 2-26-15

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With March and its wild energy ride just around the corner, consider preparing now with these insights about what’s in store and how you can shift personal outcomes in positive ways. Foresight and advance planning can make all the difference – helping you to take advantage of opportunities for a brand-new start and to avoid reaction to surprises and crisis.Every month has its intense moments, so what’s unusual about March? 

First is a peak moment on March 16 when we have a rare lineup of slow-moving planets Pluto and Uranus. This cosmic dance of energy is directly related to a long cycle of radical revolutionary change – impacting all of us and how we relate to one another on this small planet. March 16 is the seventh electrifying lineup since 2012. Keep in mind, it’s not about just one day – cosmic events like this are felt long before and after a planetary lineup. See my previous articles for more on this. Soon after the historic lineup is the March 20 Equinox occurring at the New Moon with total Solar Eclipse – a very spiritual and transformational moment with a ripple effect.

 

Second is the underlying transformational energy stirring for decades and reaching critical mass. This relates to a grand reconfiguration process that is both personal and planetary. It is part of birthing a brand-new type of world fueled by love. This is a true revolution is consciousness, impacting how life is lived on all levels. March is like a marker month, when issues not addressed before will come up for inescapable review. Some events will seem intense, unexpected, even shocking.

Transformational cosmic energies combined with human actions will catalyze key choice points.

 

Third is the surprise factor that can catch even the most grounded aware person off guard. Most people are somewhat used to the roller coaster of transformational shifting, having lived through countless up-and-down cycles. However, many people are weary of living with constant change and looking forward to the fruits of this Year of the Goat with its lighter feel – so not thinking about more intensity. When we have cycles like in March, however, there is no way to tell exactly how things will play out – that’s up to individuals and the collective. To be sure, there will be some out-of-character responses and surprise events. Some responses may open doors, others begin revolutions.

It’s really about consciousness.

 

General Background

The transformation of our world is a process over time. We’ve had countless other revolutions on this planet – perhaps you were alive during some of them. No previous revolutionary time was like this one, however. This time we’re changing everything from the inside out, from top to bottom. It’s a grand overhaul indeed!

To be alive now is a gift, though it may not seem so on some days. Your being here is no accident. You came to fill your divine changemaker shoes, walking the planet as a light being and being a pivotal force in positive changes.

On any given day, many forces are at play. The dance of planets sets in motion cycles of energy. The planets don’t decide the future, though, we do. The future comes from our response to present energies. On an individual level, know that you are not controlled by planets. It is helpful, though, to understand how you are personally impacted by energetic cycles – that way you have foresight and you can apply consciousness to situations to help modify outcomes.

5 Tips for Skillful Navigation in March

Here are five tips to help you skillfully navigate the March energies. Invite your Higher Self to assist you in applying these over the coming days.

First: Become more comfortable with change. You want the world to change and you probably know things within yourself you want to shift. Change is messy, often erratic, and contrary to the human need to maintain the comfort of the status quo. As you change in positive ways, you help the world change.

Second: Be open to opportunities. The March energies may be intense and erratic, but they also offer a jewel: the opportunity to create a brand-new beginning in some area of your life. This is a bonus available as a result of the Pluto-Uranus lineup. This applies on both an individual level and to humanity as a whole. As you can imagine, this can be huge!

Third: Monitor your inner fire and emotional responses. The energies playing out in March are likely to trigger intense feelings. If a loved one or boss lashes out unexpectedly, do what you can to stay in your heart and avoid reaction. As a divine changemaker you will thrive and find peace by taking the high road.

Fourth: Factor in the collective. What is unfolding now across the Earth involves all living things. You are a part of that, but on many days your experience will seem profoundly different. It’s about stages of awakening and this can vary widely. Allow for that. Do not judge. Avoid taking things personally. However, do take personal responsibility for your own energy and actions.

Fifth: Factor in daily self-care. No matter how busy you are, this is essential. Your spiritual progression depends upon your finding ways to refuel, rebalance, and heal as issues arise. A healthy relationship with yourself, honoring your needs for self-care and rest, helps you to create the relationships and life you want. With this foundation, you are well equipped to fulfill your soul’s purpose and take an active role in the awakening of humanity.

Selacia – Wise Navigation of March Energies – 2-27-15

Selacia

Thursday, 26 February, 2015

With March and its wild energy ride just around the corner, consider preparing now with these insights about what’s in store and how you can shift personal outcomes in positive ways.

Foresight and advance planning can make all the difference – helping you to take advantage of opportunities for a brand-new start and to avoid reaction to surprises and crisis.

Every month has its intense moments, so what’s unusual about March?

First is a peak moment on March 16 when we have a rare lineup of slow-moving planets Pluto and Uranus.

This cosmic dance of energy is directly related to a long cycle of radical revolutionary change – impacting all of us and how we relate to one another on this small planet.

March 16 is the seventh electrifying lineup since 2012. Keep in mind, it’s not about just one day – cosmic events like this are felt long before and after a planetary lineup. See my previous articles for more on this.

Soon after the historic lineup is the March 20 Equinox occurring at the New Moon with total Solar Eclipse – a very spiritual and transformational moment with a ripple effect.

Second is the underlying transformational energy stirring for decades and reaching critical mass. This relates to a grand reconfiguration process that is both personal and planetary.

It is part of birthing a brand-new type of world fueled by love. This is a true revolution is consciousness, impacting how life is lived on all levels.

March is like a marker month, when issues not addressed before will come up for inescapable review.

Some events will seem intense, unexpected, even shocking. Transformational cosmic energies combined with human actions will catalyze key choice points.

Third is the surprise factor that can catch even the most grounded aware person off guard.

Most people are somewhat used to the roller coaster of transformational shifting, having lived through countless up-and-down cycles.

However, many people are weary of living with constant change and looking forward to the fruits of this Year of the Goat with its lighter feel – so not thinking about more intensity.

When we have cycles like in March, however, there is no way to tell exactly how things will play out – that’s up to individuals and the collective. To be sure, there will be some out-of-character responses and surprise events.

Some responses may open doors, others begin revolutions. It’s really about consciousness.

General Background

The transformation of our world is a process over time. We’ve had countless other revolutions on this planet – perhaps you were alive during some of them. No previous revolutionary time was like this one, however.

This time we’re changing everything from the inside out, from top to bottom. It’s a grand overhaul indeed!

To be alive now is a gift, though it may not seem so on some days. Your being here is no accident.

You came to fill your divine changemaker shoes, walking the planet as a light being and being a pivotal force in positive changes.

On any given day, many forces are at play. The dance of planets sets in motion cycles of energy. The planets don’t decide the future, though, we do. The future comes from our response to present energies.

On an individual level, know that you are not controlled by planets. It is helpful, though, to understand how you are personally impacted by energetic cycles – that way you have foresight and you can apply consciousness to situations to help modify outcomes.

5 Tips for Skillful Navigation in March

Here are five tips to help you skillfully navigate the March energies. Invite your Higher Self to assist you in applying these over the coming days.

First: Become more comfortable with change. You want the world to change and you probably know things within yourself you want to shift.

Change is messy, often erratic, and contrary to the human need to maintain the comfort of the status quo. As you change in positive ways, you help the world change.

Second: Be open to opportunities. The March energies may be intense and erratic, but they also offer a jewel: the opportunity to create a brand-new beginning in some area of your life.

This is a bonus available as a result of the Pluto-Uranus lineup. This applies on both an individual level and to humanity as a whole. As you can imagine, this can be huge!

Third: Monitor your inner fire and emotional responses. The energies playing out in March are likely to trigger intense feelings.

If a loved one or boss lashes out unexpectedly, do what you can to stay in your heart and avoid reaction. As a divine changemaker you will thrive and find peace by taking the high road.

Fourth: Factor in the collective. What is unfolding now across the Earth involves all living things.

You are a part of that, but on many days your experience will seem profoundly different. It’s about stages of awakening and this can vary widely. Allow for that. Do not judge.

Avoid taking things personally. However, do take personal responsibility for your own energy and actions.

Fifth: Factor in daily self-care. No matter how busy you are, this is essential. Your spiritual progression depends upon your finding ways to refuel, rebalance, and heal as issues arise.

A healthy relationship with yourself, honoring your needs for self-care and rest, helps you to create the relationships and life you want.

With this foundation, you are well equipped to fulfill your soul’s purpose and take an active role in the awakening of humanity.

Copyright 2014 by Selacia – author of Earth’s Pivotal Years, healer, and teacher * All Rights Reserved * www.Selacia.com * Feel free to share these articles with your friends and post to your blog or website as long as you include this copyright line and the full article text.

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Selacia – Soulmates and Destiny – Bonds Over Time – 2-21-15

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Selacia

February 17, 2015

Relationships play a key role in your joy and success in 2015, and some soulmate connections can be pivotal influences on your longer term destiny. To understand this, be prepared to expand your view of what a soulmate is and how the two of you help each other over time.

What is a Soulmate?

A soulmate is someone you bond with on a soul level. It’s a person, or even a pet, that comes into your life for a special connection that greatly enriches your life and helps you grow. This is someone who helps you see yourself more clearly and more lovingly – this helps you to progress spiritually.

Potentials for 2015

This year, with its lighter energies and more potentials for moving forward, your soulmate connections could be a significant component of your success. After all, soulmates help catalyze full expression of your life purpose. They provide helpful support in obvious and not-so-obvious ways – like soothing you after a tough day and introducing you to someone who can open new doors of opportunity. A soulmate can remind you of your good qualities too.

Soulmates are not random. Since the connection is at a soul level, the two souls are involved in orchestrating the meeting and other happenstance. It’s common for this connection to occur over a number of lifetimes, resulting in a strong bond. That’s why when you first meet someone you can feel like you are old friends – there’s a comfort level that comes from long experience. What happens is that by knowing them in different circumstances over time, you bond and help one another grow. Your strong bonds over time magnetize you together again and again.

Types of Soulmates

From a quantum perspective, we indeed have more than one soulmate. There are different types of soulmates too. The type most people think of is a romantic partner soulmate. This type usually comes from a past bond created in another lifetime. Some lifetimes, you could be with them in a romantic partnership, and then other lifetimes you might be best friends, siblings, parent-child, or business colleagues.

Some romantic partner soulmates will be in a lifelong relationship. This isn’t always the case, though. From the perspective of the two souls, their having a larger view, your romantic partnership may not be destined to last an entire lifetime – for many reasons. Sometimes your paths move in different directions, each of you needing to experience something new. In this case, each of you later on could connect with another soulmate – coming into your life at the perfect time.

Special Bonds with Each Person

Being with one soulmate rather than another does not take away from the special bonds each partnership has. In spirit’s view, there is a unique purpose to each connection and it stands on its own.

In our conventional society – with linear black-and-white thinking – there’s a tendency to think we have only one soulmate and that we can be happy with only one person.

Pets Can be Soulmates

Also, people with a linear view tend to discount that even pets can be our soulmates. In reality, the soulmate bond is not just about human-to-human. When we get on the other side and have spirit’s view, we can see this clearly.

On the other side, too, we have a higher view of why some soulmate connections involve ongoing friction and upset. In fact, soulmate romantic partnerships sometimes are quite explosive and other times the initial sizzle fades before a commitment is made. This can be quite puzzling and frustrating, to say the least!

Indeed, the strong attraction between people is no guarantee of a smooth ride. People in love often have the incorrect assumption that being with a soulmate is like a fairy tale with a lifelong commitment and no disagreements or problems. Of course, this isn’t true.

Sometimes, as mentioned, the partnering was never meant to be really long term. Also, as long as either person has unresolved issues or life plans, they will tend to get played out with whoever is closest – in this case with the soulmate.

Gifts of Soulmates

From a cosmic perspective, you are an eternal being having a series of experiences in this physical reality. Sometimes you grow the most from conflict that catalyzes a deeper inner questioning. A soulmate you bonded with numerous lifetimes could feel safe enough so that you let down your guard. Perhaps one gift of knowing that person again in this life is that he or she helps you to be more authentic and to take back power you have given away to others.

This gift may not be obvious, of course, until long after you have learned these things. By then, the two of you may no longer be a couple. The key here is to see and appreciate the gift of the relationship in the now. Then it’s much easier to let go of clinging to what was and move on.

Tip: be present and heart-centered with each person you meet. Think of each person as part of your human family. Over time you will discover soulmate bonds with a number of people. Do your best to learn from each one, listening to what your heart tells you about the connection and what it means in the current moment. Think of each soulmate bond as another opportunity to be loving – to yourself and others. Love is what matters.

Copyright 2014-2015 by Selacia – author of Earth’s Pivotal Years, healer, and teacher * All Rights Reserved * http://www.Selacia.com * Feel free to share these articles with your friends and post to your blog or website as long as you include this copyright line and the full article text.

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Selacia – 5 Tips to Find Your Calm Zone – 12-23-14

Selacia5 Tips to Find Your Calm Zone    by Selacia

Find your natural inner sense of calm over the coming days with these reminders and specific tips. As you find your own calm zone, you will be able to tap a heightened experience of joy and productiveness. These last days of 2014 can then be fully utilized as a treasure chest of opportunity – letting go of the old and preparing to shine your light even more brightly in 2015.

It is natural to feel like you’re on a roller coaster ride this holiday season. Why? The pace of life picks up this time of year, so time distortions are amplified. There are fun things to do, people you want to see, and perhaps obligations causing you stress. Some things simply must get finished before year-end, and you can stress over them, even if they aren’t really hard to accomplish.

Next year, as I wrote about in my 2015 Predictions, comes with some new energies and windows of opportunity that can shift your life experience in more positive directions. Knowing that 2015 is just around the corner, you naturally want to be prepared by doing your end-year clearing and intention setting now.

The best emotional state for your end-year preparations is one of calm. This is the calm zone within that you naturally can access with mindfulness, a persistent attention to your emotional state, and making wise choices of how to use your energy. A few tips of how to achieve this are below.

5 Tips to Find Your Calm

First, be as present as you can. This keeps you from getting ahead of yourself, obsessing about past holiday experiences, and needlessly worrying about future outcomes. Only by being present, grounded, and in your heart can you connect with your divine power to create. Calm comes from being in tune and in time with your own natural rhythms and what’s truly important in the moment. Let the rest go.

Second, check in with yourself frequently throughout the day to gauge what you are feeling. Discover that you are angry or disappointed? Look at those feelings directly in a neutral way. Everyone gets angry sometimes; don’t make it worse by becoming angry at yourself for feeling the emotion. Do switch the channel from anger, though, before you take your next actions. Invite spirit to connect you with a happier state and intend to notice things you do enjoy about your life. Simply doing that will calm you and raise your frequency.

Third, if you are empathic or simply sensitive, take note of this. Finding your calm requires an ongoing self-assessment of mind chatter and feelings. Sometimes thoughts and emotions you experience do not belong to you. Get into the habit of self-inquiry to determine how much of your mood or negative thinking has been influenced by others. Take responsibility only for your own mind and emotions. Your job is not to fix others or be a vessel for the anger of others. Set healthy boundaries.

Fourth, pace yourself. This includes a pacing of processing your input and experiences. Life these days is becoming exponentially quicker and more complex. In the same moment you are doing one thing, you are likely processing some information or an event that came on your radar moments before. Even seemingly minor bits of input can trigger an avalanche of processing deep within you – with or without your awareness. Find your calm by acknowledging the need to pace yourself and by understanding that much more than you can possibly imagine is unfolding outside your immediate awareness. Allow for this. Take moments of time-out here and there to simply be still and shut down focus on your incoming antenna. Invite dreams to help you process life experiences and to prepare you for what’s next. By using these tools, you can find your calm more of the time.

Fifth, access your calm zone by refusing to be combative and deciding moment-by-moment how you will respond to what’s unfolding. Being at war with deadlines or family obligations will trigger a high-alert in your nervous system. Fight or flight responses take you out of your calm. Address each situation directly, authentically, and with kindness. Ask yourself each time: “Is this action I’m about to take in my highest good?” If it’s not your best option, go deeper with your questions to determine optimal alternatives. Sometimes all you need to do is say “yes” or “no” to something, even if that was hard for you to do before. Other times, what’s needed is to just walk away.

Remember, you are a divine changemaker – at the core of your being you indeed are calm and your natural state is joy!

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Copyright 2014 by Selacia – author of Earth’s Pivotal Years, healer, and teacher * All Rights Reserved * http://www.Selacia.com * Feel free to share these articles with your friends and post to your blog or website as long as you include this copyright line and the full article text.  via newslettter 23 December 2014