Jennifer Hoffman – Claim Your Divinity in Each Moment – 8-22-16

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The divine path is yours within each moment, it is not your reward for living a good life or for being a source of light for the world during your life. Divinity does not live in heaven or in the afterlife; it is not part of the detached realm of Source or God or beyond the veil. You are a divine being who has chosen to enter the limitation of humanity and then integrate your divinity within your humanity to become a fully integrated expression of God as human. Suffering exists because the connection to divinity is limited. When you claim your divinity in each moment, you make each moment an outward expression of the divine within you and raise each experience to the frequency of the divine.

Your divinity does not require holiness; it is an expression of the wholeness of your being, human and spiritual, and has nothing to do with religion or worthiness. It is yours whether you ask for or acknowledge it, or remember that it is within you. It is something that is always there, waiting for you to reconnect to it. When you acknowledge your divinity you remember that you are of God and are equal to God and you bring that energy into each moment.

You are an emanation of Source light and can never be disconnected from, less than, or unworthy of that which is your Source.

There is no payment, suffering, or waiting required for your Source connection. Those who believe that God is ever apart or separated from humanity are simply misinformed.

God is in you and is everywhere around you; the divine is you and you are the divine. It is your choice to live each moment as a divine expression of your humanity, or as a human trying to be good enough to be worthy of divinity.

Suffering exists when you forget that you are divine, that you are fundamentally a spiritual being and that the world exists for you to experience it as divine and within the energy of your divinity. You choose difficult, challenging, and painful life experiences which you try, within your humanity, to transform so they are worthy of divinity, rather than claiming your divinity in each moment so that every aspect of your life resonates at the frequency of divinity. Then everything you choose has an experience of divinity, which is part of your soul mission and ascension path.

When you claim your divinity in each moment you lead with your divinity and bring that energy into the world.

The world needs your divinity, not your humanity. It does not need more suffering; it needs sources of divine transformation. You become this source when you claim your divinity in each moment.  The highest expression of your energy is the integration of human and divine, of spirit and human, which is the full expression of heaven on earth.

When you live as a divine being, you express your divinity in everything that you do and invite the co-creative partnership of the Universe in everything. That is an affirmation of your faith, your connection to Source and your willingness to reclaim your divinity and live your life as a spiritual being in control of your reality, willing to experience the world in the way that you choose. Re-member your divinity to you by remembering that you are divine and claim your divinity in each moment. Expect your needs to be met, your dreams to come true, your reality to reflect your heart’s desire. This is how you remember that you are divine and act as a divine being, within your divinity.

This week’s messages has been an Archangel Uriel channeled message. I hope you enjoy it. For more information about Archangel Uriel, visit

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Healing Emotional Black Holes by Jennifer Hoffman – 7-27-16 – Forever Unlimited

Healing Emotional Black Holes by Jennifer Hoffman| Jul 27, 2016 Have you ever been just sitting around, minding your own business, and then you get a phone call or text that sends you into an emotional tsunami? Suddenly your life, which you thought was just fine a minute before, is now in emotional overdrive and […]

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Jennifer Hoffman – June 2016 Energy Report – 6-4-16


Jennifer Hoffman  –  June 2016 Energy Report   –   6-4-16

We’re nearly halfway through 2016 and if you feel like you have made no progress this year, you are probably right in more than a few ways. So far 2016 has felt like one big retrograde with each small step forward accompanied by several huge steps backward. But this month the energy clears and we have a double 6 vibe (June is the 6th month, 2016 is a 9 and 9 + 6 = 15, which adds up to 6), so we can see movement, grounding of higher vibe energy, and concrete progress, with a big caveat – we must align internally first, before we act externally. June’s energy is like a rose – the outer petals open when the inner ones are ready—and it’s also the month that roses traditionally begin to bloom. May’s five retrogrades helped put us into position and now we’re entering a new month with new options, opportunities, and a big desire to move forward, which we have been awaiting for a long time.

June jumps out of the starting gate with a new moon on the 4th that brings in the energy of nearly every planet in a grand cross configuration in mutable (transformation) signs, with an emphasis on the ‘outer’, slower moving planets, so everyone gets to experience this. This is an energetic activation that takes us to the edge of the transformation cliff. The tension of a Grand Cross means that all of the planets are facing each other across the ‘line in the sand’. Do we dare cross the line to see what’s on the other side? This new moon also hits the March 10, 2016 eclipse points, re-activating them for another round of experience. Was anything happening for you then that is coming around again?

We have been shown everything in our reality that limits our joy thanks to five months of relentless clearing, now we have to decide whether we’re ready to take that leap into our expanded, unlimited potential. Eventually we get tired of going around the transformation merry-go-round and are ready to jump off. This is one of those times.

While it appears that there are so many options available and we don’t know which one to take, the choice becomes easier when we view it from the standpoint of what makes us happy and what serves our intention. With the intense clearing of the last five months you may gone through a major mental, emotional, and spiritual house cleaning, but that’s OK because starting in June our energetic families will begin to appear and we are going to learn a whole new level of relating and relationship. We are out of soulmate cycles and into kindred spirit connections, people with whom we have no karma with and who share our energetic frequency and vibration. Are we ready for karma- and drama-free relationships? Let’s find out.

Bloom is the keyword for June but it has to be intentional blooming and we have to know what kind of flower we’re going to become. Shakespeare said “that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet”, but we’ll be disappointed if we are expecting a beautiful, sweet-smelling rose and end up with a stinky marigold (which are also beautiful but they smell bad). Intention is now interwoven within all of our energetic channels. To powerfully manifest we must also set powerful intentions. Not wishes or hopes, but intentions that are clear, direct, and focused on what we want in our new joyful, joy-filled realities.

And if your life has been cleared out of energetic debris in the past few months you have a clean slate to begin anew. You can’t spend any time regretting the past this month, or judging yourself for your past choices. We make choices in each moment based on what works for us in that moment. Our options may change in the next moment but that doesn’t make the previous choice wrong, it just means that it no longer works for us and our new reality. And remember we don’t leave anyone behind, we need to recognize the energetic sovereignty of every human – they are in full control of their energy and of their choices and they must also run out of energy road on their path before they will see the need to choose something else.

This month’s full moon is at 29 Sagittarius, a closing cycle to the May 21 full moon at 1 Sagittarius whose rare conjunction with retrograde Mars and powerful outer planet aspects set the stage for ‘no holds barred’ transformation that was combined with the end of what was quite a challenging Mercury retrograde. That either gave us even more reason to consider staying on the transformation path or to turn away from it because it was too hard, too much, too challenging, or we were too tired. And what was started then can be finished now, if we’re ready. Timing and readiness go together now and we can’t force either one.

The big event in June is the exact Uranus/Eris conjunction on June 23, just after the Solstice, the first of three connections between 2016 and 2017. This hasn’t happened since 1927 and that time brought about the Great Depression, big changes in the social agenda, and the beginnings of women having a stronger place in society. Eris is the goddess of discord, Uranus is the planet of revolution. Eris was first discovered in 2005, when our big push into the ascension cycle began. Now, 11 years later, we are beginning to understand the power that this dwarf planet embodies. When discord and revolution come together, you can expect some fur to fly. This configuration has been brewing for several months and we have it exact in June. We can expect changes in the social structure, more social revolution, and more protests from people who want to see real change in how the world is run. It will make this month very exciting indeed.

And children born under the Uranus/Eris conjunction will have a strong revolutionary nature. They will be a generation of world leaders who will not be content with the status quo, who will not accept a world run by despots, greed, and power mongers. So if you have a child born at this time and you discover that they don’t like being told what to do and are free thinkers you can blame their Uranus/Eris conjunction.

June is traditionally the month when couples marry, so relationships are a strong focus this month but while you may find new love (and you will if you are ready for it), there are two powerful relationship aspects we need to consider. The first is our relationship with ourselves and the second is our relationship with our Self, or our human/Source partnership. Look at the Gemini glyph pictured here, independent and yet connected. That’s the perfect balance of human and divine, where we aren’t leaning on Source for support and instruction, and are confidently standing in our power using divine guidance as a tool, not a crutch. The connection is above and below us, balanced and equal. We are at our most powerful when we can embody this level of congruent, harmonious connection. It fits with the 2016 theme of ‘Congruent Harmony’, where energy fits and flows in the most balanced way.

It’s easy to give our power away to our divine connection too, believing that it knows more than we do. But this is a co-creative partnership and both partners, human and divine, must act in balanced, congruent harmony so the energy flows are equal. We intend and create energetic space for manifestation and receiving, and the Universe responds in a way that is perfectly aligned with our intention.

If you’re ready to be finished with the lessons, healing, and clearing and to‘shake it off’, and explore other life paths, then June is perfect for that. But don’t expect the ‘easy’ solution; instead, expect the solution that exactly matches your intention. We receive exactly what we intend, ask for, and are aligned with. The Universe doesn’t make up the difference or pick up the slack. Confident, clear, focused intentions creates the best outcomes. What are you going to ask for? Start with what has been your area of greatest concern in your life. In these powerful times we have a lot of energy at our disposal so by choosing the most powerful thing in your life, you create a large space in your energy container that can be filled with new energy.

This is also a month when the questions that have been troubling you, the situations you were not clear about, the decisions that you couldn’t make yet, may become very clear for you. You’ll see what can bloom in your life, what is past its prime, and what can be cut away because its time is over. In gardening terms it’s called ‘dead heading’, removing flowers that are finished blooming so the plant doesn’t support them and to encourage more flowers. What needs to be ‘ dead headed’ in your life now? It may come up in June so be prepared. Have a wonderful month.

Starting this month I am introducing something new, a Monthly Energy Mastery Class to provide you with tools, techniques, tips, and information to help you navigate the month’s energy in these fast moving times. At the beginning of each month, starting in June, we will have a live and recorded call that will feature a deep dive into the month’s energy and frequencies, what you can expect and what to watch out for, how to use the month’s energy in your life, a meditation and energy exercise, and some tools you can use to help you navigate the month in a more powerful way.

The recordings are yours to download and listen to, and you can purchase a single call or a block of 3 or for the rest of 2016 (these two options are not available after June 4, 2016). The June call will be on June 4, 2016, click here to visit the website for more information and how to sign up.


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Jennifer Hoffman – August 2015 – Energy Report – 8-4-15

If I had to sum up August’s energy in one word I’d start with relief, now that July is over. It was a long, tough month that seemed to drag on forever. But everything we overcame helped us set new energy boundaries, opened new avenues of potential, and cleared a lot of debris from our individual and collective realities. August starts with a full moon and Venus retrograde, which indicates endings are stronger than beginnings. Saturn is also closing out a 33 year cycle, and a larger 99 year cycle is ending. Also, all of the personal planets (Mercury, Venus, Mars) change sign this month so the collective energy is moving now. The ascension train has left the station and is gaining steam. Remember that endings and beginnings overlap, so be aware of the beginnings that arise as you’re disconnecting from what no longer serves you because they’re happening at the same time.August has a very spiritual element to its energy, and this doesn’t have to do with spirituality or religion, but the power and energy of spirit, the divinity portal which is the gateway to the expression of our multi-dimensionality. We have danced around  this concept for over 30 years and now it’s time to put it into action. The first step isn’t inviting our alien friends to dinner, it’s clearing the blocks to the expression of our divine self within our own belief systems, which we have been doing for many years now. It’s the second step that counts now, which is the question ‘What does it mean to be divine?’ and we find that answer in Jupiter changing signs on August 11.

Jupiter moves from Leo to Virgo this month, which also happened in September 2003. That’s when Archangel Uriel first appeared to me and asked me to work with him — I said ‘no thank you’ at first (then I changed my mind). It’s when we began the real work of ascension and for many of us, me included, it’s when things really hit the fan, so to speak. I have never been as scared, penniless, felt as out of control, helpless, and hopeless as I did at that time. With Jupiter in Virgo in 2003 we became full fledged Martyred Healers and started working to heal the world. We were going to get the world to ascension, no matter what it took. And it took nearly all we had and more. We fully took on the role of Light Workers and nearly worked ourselves to death. That work continues but in a much different way, we turn a corner in August to become shining ‘light beacons’.

Now we get to take on a new paradigm of that energy because in the last 12 years we have become wise to the ways of energy and we learned something from the last Jupiter in Virgo transit, that we can’t heal the world by putting ourselves on the cross. We can be in service to the world but not as a servant, we have to be the master and a victor. So now we can embrace Jupiter in Virgo and enjoy the full complement of Virgo’s energies, which include compassion, grace, attention to detail, and perfection. It’s the sign of health too — and the interest in healthier eating, exercise, and a cleaner environment began in 2003, the last time Jupiter was in Virgo. Watch it gain even more momentum now. Those of you in the alternative health fields should see a big upswing in your businesses, as well as growth of anything that has to do with being more health aware. We’re taking another turn at that role again, this time from a more empowered perspective, one that serves us first, meets our needs, engages our energy and potential, without the cross and the martyrdom.

Another big August aspect is Saturn going direct on August 1 as it prepares to leave Scorpio. This is the biggest event of the century because it also marks the end of a 99 year cycle that began in 1917 (see my video below with that explanation). Saturn grinds across the final two degrees of Scorpio all month, leaving for good on September 19, just in time for the Autumn Equinox. To know what it means in your life, go back to 1982 and 1983, when it was last in Scorpio, and before that, to 1950. That decade saw the entry of the first strong Indigo generation into the earth’s energy grids and now, two Scorpio cycles later, they’re going to finally get their mojo moving.

Here’s the video explaining the 99 and 33 year cycles

A lovely new moon at 22 Leo on August 14 is a great marker between these endings and beginnings. That’s when we’ll feel the potential of August in a more direct way, as the first two weeks may be taken up with tying up loose ends, as months that begin with a full moon often do. And this is also part of the action that is possible in August; indeed, new beginnings are more fruitful when they aren’t dragged down by the past’s emotional and psychic baggage.

We have Uranus the pioneer and revolutionary in Aries, the first sign of the zodiac, and Chiron, the wounded healer and our karmic reminder, in Pisces, the last sign of the zodiac. As Uranus tries to yank us out of our discomfort, Chiron reminds us to clean our mess first, like doing your homework and cleaning your room before you play outside. While you may want to move forward, be sure to take care of the healing and closure that may come up this month. You have to do it anyway and if you don’t take care of it now, you’ll have to do it later. Who wants to be stuck in the house with a mop and a broom while everyone else is having fun playing outside?

If you feel energized and motivated now, one of August’s gifts, it’s a resurgence of your energy and the need for us to take action. That doesn’t always mean ‘doing’ things, action starts with choices, which begins within our ‘being’. Set intentions for the outcomes you want to create, then see what comes up for clearing. Don’t be too anxious to reach the end of the journey because as you create your beginnings, many other things become possible. Be the explorer now, consider what else is possible. So much of our energy has been involved in healing and transformation, what happens when you put the obligations aside and intend some joyful, abundant living? No matter what we intend for the world, we have to include ourselves in the love, abundance, joy, and peace that we so compassionately intend for others.

August is a month for self awareness, self care, self indulgence, and self focus (notice the emphasis on the ‘self’?). Release your judgments, especially those that involve doing the ‘right’ things, being good, and being enough. Indulge your dreams and visions for the life you want to live, and give yourself permission to relax, refresh, and renew yourself before the big push that happens in September. While you’re creating your big energy container, make sure you empty it occasionally, as new intentions always bring up old beliefs, patterns, and limitations. No stress or pressure, just clean up as you move forward.

August is a time to step back from the work of being and doing as the world’s healers and teachers and let the dust settle a bit. We’ll know what to focus on after we take time to asses what’s left to do, decide what we want to keep, and what we are ready to let go of.  We have done so much work already, let’s see how much the collective is capable of (probably a lot more than we know), they do need to participate in this process too. We have done the heavy lifting for a long time, they are ready to participate and we need to give them the chance to do that.

The energy this month is more relaxed and lesss frantic, and we have several new energy cycles starting now, so we don’t need to work so hard. Spend some time this month thinking about what your ‘awe-filled, amazing, re-visioned’ life looks like, so you can empower that with your energetic consent. August’s keyword is ‘indulgence’, which means gratification, allowing, tolerance, and permission. How can you indulge yourself in some way this month, giving yourself permission to enjoy what you have worked so hard to create, and taking time to smell the beautiful flowers in your life’s garden?  Have a wonderful month.


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Jennifer Hoffman – Seek Clarity First | Enlightening Life – 5-20-15

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The need to know the reason for lessons is one way you try to understand why you experience life challenges. But nothing happens to you without your direction, control, willingness, andparticipation. Every event and experience is part of the path of  reconnection to wholeness which you create for each lifetime. When you ask for answers you place others, including Source, in control of your life path, in the hope that somehow what you receive will explain and justify the pain, doubt, confusion, and suffering that you experience. There is only one answer and you will find it when you seek clarity first.

But what you need to know in order to understand the reasons for your challenges and pain is clarity about your purpose and mission in creating them, the healing you desire, your continuing search for wholeness, and the transformation that you hoped to achieve with them. Without clarity, answers have no meaning or value because to have clarity you must also acknowledge your power and the control you have over every aspect of your life.

Every healing path is a journey in reconnection with your power, value, deserving, and worthiness. Any challenge or painful experience is a reminder that you are unworthy of joy, peace, and love which is a decision you make through the ego. It is your humanity that creates the pain-filled path to reconnection, while Spirit merely asks you to remember that you are already divine, powerful, worthy, valuable and valued, loved, and whole.

When you ask questions from the point of receiving clarity, you can learn where you have disconnected yourself, for Source can never and would never disconnect from you. When you simply want answers, you make yourself a victim of your experiences.

Clarity reveals the purpose of your lessons, how you created their details, and what you wanted to atone for or resolve through them. Clarity requires acceptance of your power and with it, the creation of your path, no matter how painful it has been. You can provide your own answers when you have clarity because there is only one answer to any question about your life path, which is a return to wholeness and reconnection to Source. There is no other answer.

Seek clarity and then use it embrace the truth about yourself, you are already whole, connected, you are an emanation of Source light so you are already divine, and you are worthy of love and are always loved. The search for wholeness and connection can never be completed because you cannot receive what you already have, and you cannot be given what is already yours by your divine birthright.

With the gift of clarity comes the awareness that will allow the bright light of your highest aspects to shine so you can become the beacon of light who creates a joyful, love-led path that powerfully proclaims your sovereignty over fear, and your masterful co-creative partnership with Spirit whose purpose is to fulfill your mission of bringing heaven on earth.


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Jennifer Hoffman – Are You Speaking My Energy Language? – 12-27-14

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by Jennifer Hoffman

December 23, 2014

Have you ever tried to talk to someone whose language you didn’t speak? Or communicate with someone who wasn’t listening or paying attention to you? What happens when language or attention aren’t the problem, but you still cannot connect and communicate with someone? As we move into greater awareness of ourselves as energetic beings, we will become more aware of the energy of the people around us, those we can connect with easily and those we cannot. Energy is the way we connect with everyone first, and everything flows from that connection when it happens and doesn’t when it is not present.

As unglamorous as it sounds, all of our connections with people are based on energy. Any emotions we have around the people in our life all got their start from the kind of energy we connect with. When we share a frequency and vibration, we connect and communicate well. If not, they can be talking and while we hear the words, we have no idea what they are saying. If we cannot process their energy, then the connection cannot happen and no matter how much we may want to force it, it won’t happen. They may be speaking our language but we won’t be able to understand a word they’re saying because on an energetic level, we are not speaking the same language at all.

We assume that we can easily communicate with everyone who speaks our language (as in uses the same words we do) and that isn’t always true. Depending on their accent, pronunciation, and talking speed, they may sound like they’re speaking a foreign language. While we can hear them, we can’t understand them very easily. The same thing is true from an energetic perspective. We’re all human so we should be able to understand each other at a basic level, right? That isn’t always true. There are many humans that we cannot communicate with very easily. But, if we began all of our connections asking whether we were aligned and resonating energetically, we would dispel a lot of mis-communications. While we assume they hear and understand us, many times they don’t. And if there isn’t a strong energetic connection, we are not fully present or engaged, so we don’t really hear them either.

When we don’t have a strong energetic alignment or connection with someone, our conversations can be based on assumptions – we anticipate what they are going to say and only listen to half of what they do say. Or, we’re physically or mentally multi-tasking during our conversations so we are only catching part of what is said and filling in the blanks. Or we don’t want to be in that conversation so our hearts and minds are closed to everything but the sound of their voices. Do we really listen to everything people say or do we listen halfway and assume the rest with what we think or know they are going to say?

But now our energy is more finely tuned and our needs are more exacting, so it is no longer as easy to connect with people at the basic levels of most of our conversations. Now we are looking for energetic alignment and resonance, for dimensional matches, and for multi-dimensional connection. When we listen now, it is with our whole being and if we can’t find those points of alignment, we have very little to say because our connection points are missing.

Connections and relationships that do not have an energetic alignment are energy drains and to fit them we have to manipulate our energy, which doesn’t feel good and is out of integrity with our intention. Instead of spend our time trying to align with all of our connections now, we seek those that are more fulfilling, easier to manage, and feel better. Rather than holding conversations with anyone who wants to talk to us, we seek out people who are a source of inspiration, enlightenment, and with whom we can share an energetic alignment. We have evolved from hearing and listening to fully connected communicating. It is no longer enough for us to simply speak the same language, we need to be speaking with the same energy.

Now, before we connect with someone, we’re asking ourselves more questions about alignment and integration, looking at their energy, and seeking strong connection points. If we cannot find a good fit, we’ll move on. While we may initially have fewer connections, they will feel genuine and powerful. Otherwise, they will feel heavy and tiresome, and they will be short-lived. Integrity and alignment are a big part of our new paradigm and it works both ways. We cannot be in integrity with those we don’t align with and we can’t be in integrity with ourselves when we try to connect with people who don’t easily align with us. Paying attention to what serves us means setting our intention to be in a flow of grace and ease, in all areas of our life. And when we stay in integrity with our own energy, we invite connections that empower and uplift us, with people that we also empower and uplift.


If you like this article and would like to work with me because you are ready for profound personal and spiritual transformation, consider a personal intuitive consultation or intuitive coaching, where we work together to examine your life path, purpose, potential, and possibilities and help you choose one that will bring you the joy, abundance, love, peace and power that you are ready for. Click here to explore the possibilities for transformation.

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Jennifer Hoffman – The Language of Your Reality – 11-12-14

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We all have conversations with ourselves, most of them occurring within the privacy of our thoughts. During these conversations we make decisions, argue, criticize, judge, and determine the course of every aspect of our lives and this creates our reality as well as determines how others will connect with and relate to us. This inner dialogue plays an important part in our lives and unfortunately, it is mostly negative. We often don’t need someone in our lives to be mean to, criticize and judge us; we do a good job of that ourselves. And we can talk ourselves out of a situation before we even allow it to unfold. This inner dialogue can follow one of two paths: it can be static, keeping us in the same,  old, negative mindset, pushing us down as soon as we try to get up, or it can be dynamic, expansive, moving us forward, and acting as a positive, uplifting force in our lives.

If our inner dialogue is static, it reflects our fears and doubts. For example, when you look in the mirror, do you say ‘I look great today.’ Or do you say ‘I’m overweight, look old, I hate my hair, could use a new face’, etc.? This static dialogue keeps us stuck in the same old patterns of thinking and behaving. And in order to move ourselves out of it we must change the way we talk to ourselves, then that will be reflected in the way others talk to and about us. Even though our inner dialogue is mostly private, it has an energy of its own that others pick up on. Have you noticed that if you don’t feel good about your appearance, someone will make a remark to that effect? They’re picking up on the negative energy that you are generating from your static inner dialogue.

When our inner dialogue is dynamic, it takes our fears and doubts into consideration and then moves on anyway. So, a dynamic inner dialogue would find one good thing about your appearance, no matter how small, and focus on that. Yes, you may be overweight but you have a great smile, for example, or you dress well, you are kind, have great hair, or always have something nice to say to everyone. When our inner dialogue is dynamic it creates positive energy around us so that others must respond to us in a positive way. Dynamic inner dialogue creates the energy that we need to make changes in our lives. What is the difference between the two? Imagine going on a job interview and you really want the job. You are sitting in front of the hiring manager, saying all of the right things, wearing the right clothes, but your inner dialogue is saying ‘I know I’m not going to get this job.’ What do you think the interviewer is picking up on that she will use in making the hiring decision?

This is what happens when you are trying to make positive external changes and your inner dialogue is static, or negative. It’s like trying to drive a car with one foot on the gas pedal and one foot on the brake pedal. You alternate between moving forward and stopping and not getting anywhere easily, quickly, or gracefully. The focus of our inner dialogue determines the course of our lives so we need to ensure that it is positive and dynamic, reaffirming our worth, value and perfection, staying away from criticism, judgment and negativity.

Each time a fear comes up, acknowledge it-you know it’s there so don’t try to hide or ignore it.  Then find a way to change it from static to dynamic so that you can move forward through it and create what you want in your life. Once your inner dialogue is dynamic, the outer you will radiate self- confidence and joy, and you will attract people, experiences and situations that mirror the positive energy you are creating around you. This week, review your inner dialogue. Is it static or dynamic, critical or loving? Don’t judge yourself, just change the negative, judgmental, critical dialogue to one that is positive, self-affirming, and loving and watch how that change is reflected in your life and in how others relate to you.

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