Jen Eramith – An Akashic Perspective on Self-Love – 3-14-15

An Akashic Perspective on Self-Love: by Jen Eramith
How can we best release negative aspects of experience or the baggage that holds us back?  How can we use the Chakras to become better aligned with ourselves and to achieve greater self-love? 

How can we best release negative aspects of experience or the baggage that holds us back?

The answers to this are so numerous.  There are so many ways that you can release the baggage that holds you back and there is not a single right way for any one of you because each of you is so different and your baggage is so different.  As you change over time, the ways that will work best for you will also change over time.  The things we can say about this now are that there are some key features to this work that all of you will need to include in your healing process.  One of them is forgiveness.  It is necessary if you are going to truly release your baggage.  It is necessary that you open a space to forgive yourself for having that baggage and to forgive everyone involved for helping create that baggage.  And that can be easy or not, but whether you have reached the point of being able to feel that forgiveness, it is important that you continue to open the space for it so that even if you are furiously angry with whomever hurt you in the past and caused you to have this baggage or even if you continually slip into the habit of criticizing yourself saying that there is something wrong with you for having the baggage.  Despite those patterns or those tendencies, keep drawing yourself back to the idea or the possibility, just maybe you were totally innocent and just maybe the people around you were trying their best and yet damage occurred and patterns developed.  Baggage was acquired.  Keep opening that space and eventually over time the forgiveness will occur.  You will not need to force it — it just takes time.  But the time has to be filled with that space of considering their forgiveness as possible.  It is especially important to forgive yourself.

This is the entire purpose of grace in this world, is grace exists so that you can forgive yourselves because the truest form of baggage; the core of every piece of emotional baggage that you carry is self-blame and self-hatred.  It is any time you feel anything other than love and respect for yourself, you have fallen into your baggage.  When we say it that way, you probably recognize that you fall into your baggage quite a lot; most of you do.  But the key here is just to continually consider the idea that perhaps you were innocent, perhaps despite your mistakes, despite your confusion, you still are just as good and just as divine as you ever could be.  That is a key component to releasing your baggage.  Then as far as the best way, there are so many methodologies so the second thing is vitally important that you retain a sense of curiosity about different healing endeavors, different practices, curiosity and flexibility.  For most of you will find that you feel drawn to certain techniques or certain practitioners and as you work through the baggage that is available when you begin that process, you will find that as new baggage arises, as new issues, patterns or wounds come to the surface, you may very well need to change to a different form of practice.  You may need to change to a new technique or a new practitioner.  It is important that you retain a sense of curiosity continually noticing if you feel like things are moving or not.  If you do not feel that things are moving, if you feel as if it is stuck then try something new.  Go to a workshop, read a self-help book, ask someone for help, take a class, go to a healer.  There are endless possibilities but try something new even if you are not sure it will hit the mark.  The only time you are truly stuck is when you stop trying new techniques, when you stop trying something new.  Those are the two key features or components will give you for releasing your emotional baggage.

How can we use the Chakras to become better aligned with ourselves and to achieve greater self-love?

For those of you who work with the Chakras, the best way you can use them to facilitate self-love is to love each one of the Chakras.  The Chakra system is just one model that describes all of the different ways that the human energy form is set in motion.  Every human being has Chakras but they are not the only energy points in your body’s field.  If you are working with the Chakras, consider how the human model for the Chakras describes each of them as having individual meaning, individual kinds of energy and motion.  Therefore each of you, as you read about the Chakras and tune into your own Chakra energy, you are likely to find that you have preferences.  You might feel like very attached to your heart Chakra but kind of ambivalent about your lower Chakras, like you are not sure what to think of those.  You might feel a little guilty about your higher Chakras thinking they should be more open than they are.  Often, without even realizing it, you impose your judgments about yourself onto your definition or relationship with the idea of your Chakras…

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Jen Eramith – Akashic Transformations (Excerpt) – Make a Decision, Move Forward – Dec. 2014

From the Akashic Records: An Excerpt from the Message of December 2014 by Jen Eramith | Akashic Transformations

From the December, 2014 Message:
-What energy and experiences can we expect in December 2014?
-Are there particular activities that will help us use the energy best in December 2014?

What energy and experiences can we expect in December 2014?

The energy this month is like lightening.  It moves so fast, you may not even see it.  You will find that time seems to move quickly, so that as soon as something begins, it seems that it is already ended.  Many of you will find that you will come to the end of the month without yet feeling that the month had fully begun.

It will be very important this month that all of you try to move ahead with whatever changes are happening in your life.  Do not hold onto resentment, do not procrastinate, and do not wait for things to make sense.  Make a decision and move forward, then make the next decision and move forward again.  If you feel unsure, try something and then adjust along the way.  It will not serve any of you to stop and wait for more information.  The world will pass you by if you wait.  Your decisions will be made for you if you do not make them quickly.  Instead of rushing, simply be sure to step forward in every way you can with certainty and grace.

This month, it will be useful for you to find ways to accomplish small tasks along the way.  For instance, return phone calls while you are waiting in line, or cook dinner by putting something in the oven rather than standing and stirring it.  Try to find ways to quickly save time and get a few things done at once.  Multitasking will be important this month.

It will also serve you to be honest and relatively relaxed about your emotions this month.  If you hold onto resentment, or if you try to get people to stop and have deep conversations with you, you will find yourself frustrated and alone.  If you will move quickly with the changes, this month can actually be a lot of fun and so much can be accomplished.  It simply must happen in small moments, quickly along the way.

Are there particular activities that will help us use the energy best in December 2014?

Focus on conversations this month.  Strive to have conversations as soon as you and the other person are ready to negotiate, resolve, or discuss something.  Do not wait for the perfect setting, do not wait for a scheduled appointment, and do not wait for a long period of free time in order to begin the conversation.  If you are thinking of someone, then reach out to that person right away.  If something is on your mind, share it right away.  If you have a question, just go ahead and ask it.  It is important to let conversations move along in small increments, rather than to let misunderstandings fester.

If there is something deep and hurtful, or difficult to discuss, try to initiate the conversation and then give the other person time to think about it.  Let them come back to you when they are ready.  Likewise, take some time to think about it and then go back to them.  Do not wait for a long appointment when you can talk it all out at once.  Much of what needs to take place this month will include something that needs to be said and then you both need to adjust, and then you act again.  It is like lightening, the brief conversation changes everything for a moment and you see things in a new way.

Just have that quick conversation and then wait to see what needs to happen next, rather than trying to accomplish your full conversations in long deep connecting times.  You will have the ability to connect deeply with people later.  This month, there just is not time for it.  The energy does not support it.  The energy this month is somewhat slippery — as soon as you grab something, it is going to slip out of your hands.  As soon as you start a project, it is going to feel like it is over or it is stuck.  As soon as you start a conversation, one of you will become distracted…”


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