“Piglet noticed that even though he had a very small heart,
it could hold a rather large amount of gratitude.” ~
A A Milne Text & image source: Earthschool Harmony
by Karen Star,
Guest writer, In5D.com
Even in today’s age of growing gender equality, the onus is still predominantly on our men to make the first move in relationships and many of you are struggling with this. So, allow me to pass on an important tip to winning the heart of that Goddess you have fallen for – One which will place you way ahead of any other suitors who may be knocking on her door.
As a single, spiritually awakened woman, I don’t get out much in the real life social scene. I’m done with the small talk from men, the awkward chat up lines and most definitely being appraised up and down like a piece of meat. I’m a happy homebody who enjoys her own company, independence and peaceful, drama free lifestyle. However, that’s not to say I wouldn’t welcome a relationship but I’m only willing to renounce my single status for a man who can fearlessly open his heart. Someone who is strong enough to be vulnerable – A modern day warrior who can show me who he is without his walls and armour – I’m looking for a hero
I hang out quite a bit on social media. I love my online vibe tribe. We have a, beautiful, inspiring connection, sharing a passion to lift humanity and the planet. The other topic that gets thrown around is the fact that many of us are single. The men often lamenting about how us women have set our standards way too high and us ladies wondering, where the hell are all the heart connected men hiding?
If my inbox is any indication, I believe the problem here lies in the initial approach that many men have when they decide to reach out to the woman who has flipped their interest. They see a woman they like, maybe it’s her smile, her energy or her passion for life and decide to test the waters. So, they decide to reach out half-heartedly in a nonchalant manner, unwilling to risk rejection and gauge the level of interest by just sticking their big toe in the water.
Maybe they send a casual message just saying, “Hi beautiful” or “Are you single?” or “Can I teach you Tantra?” – I’m laughing because believe me, I’ve heard them all. These introductions lack depth and originality. They are just not to stop the girl of your dreams dead in her tracks and make her go – “Wow, I really feel I want to get to know this guy better.”
If you really want to impress your crush and explore if she’s open to getting to know you better, you’re going to have to dig deeper and give her something special. Oh boy I can hear you saying, more flowers, chocolates, fancy restaurants – Well no actually, that’s definitely not going to win the heart of a woman with any depth, and what I’m suggesting you give her cannot be bought with any credit card or impressive bank balance either. If she’s an awakened woman, you’re just not going impress her with your shiny car, bulging biceps, cheesy words or corny memes.
Right from the start she’s going to want to know if you can fearlessly open your heart…. That’s what she’s looking for in a man.
So be brave and give her something no one else can – Give her a piece of your heart. Give her an insight into a side of you that you don’t show to everyone else. Tell her how you feel about her and mention that you’re nervous but she’s worth taking the risk for. Be authentic and genuine, she’s not interested in flashy showmanship and you only ever going to get one chance to make that vital first impression.
Now doing that takes real guts – Warrior courage…. But she’s never going settle for anything less in a man.
Look at you, you’ve been walking the hard yards on your own spiritual journey. You’ve embraced the lessons from past relationships and grown from the inevitable pain. You know you have something special to offer her. You are unique, no one else can give her what you’ve got – After all that’s what you’re selling right? … Your heart.
And you know what? Despite your best efforts, maybe she’s still won’t reciprocate your same level of interest. But I’ll tell you one thing – You’ll have gained her respect and she’s unlikely to forget you either.
If she’s not interested, don’t see it as rejection, we can’t fall romantically in love with everyone we meet. Just look how strong you are to even allow yourself be vulnerable – Now that shows real strength as a man.
If it doesn’t work out, don’t close the door on your heart, everything is a stepping stone. Gently remind yourself that you’ve managed to wrench open your heart a tiny bit more, ready for when that one special lady who will see you as her true hero, comes along – And she will. because a man who can open his heart is in huge demand with us single goddesses.
You have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Fearlessly show her your heart … And just maybe, you will win hers.
About the author: Karen Star is a passionate writer, poet, yogini, mother and vibrational alignment coach. She’s down to Earth with her head in the stars – Clearly from another galaxy. Speaking her truth from her heart, she delights in demystifying the bridge between quantum reality and our human experience, as we ride the highs and lows of the roller coaster through life. She lives in a reality where everything is energy and we are all dancing to the sacred music of the cosmos. Feel free to connect with Karen via her Facebook account.
If I were to ask you to list all your desires, and all your desires came through today, you would jump for joy. You would be so excited. You would feel rewarded and loved today. You would know for a fact that the Stars are smiling on you. How happy you would be.
It is a good guess that you can easily put together a long list. If you ran out of ideas, you could go to the internet or TV or ads in a magazine and catalogues. There is no shortage of what you would find to desire. The world offers you trails of breadcrumbs for you to follow and more and more.
Yes, if all your dreams come true today, you would be happy. You would be ecstatically happy until – until — the Joy fades. How can it be that joy fades? How is it that wonderful gifts lose their luster?
The deal is that you can always have more to add to your list of world desires. World desires just aren’t enough for you. When you get a new car, after awhile, it isn’t new any longer. After awhile, there are newer cars that hit the spot. New goes only so far in the material world. Gilding the Lily wears off.
The world at large certainly does give you happiness — for a while. The world is simply not able to bestow long-lasting happiness. You could have gold and sit in a palace, and it would not be enough. Lasting happiness isn’t able to establish itself within you from outside.
Lasting happiness arises from within. However intriguing the world is – and it is intriguing, no doubt — lasting happiness bubbles up from within you.
Within is not the same as without. Interior is interior. External is external. Internal is internal. Foundation is foundation. Surface is surface. Temporary is temporary.
In Life, you alternate between Life on the Surface and Life in the Depths of your Soul. Have both. Of course, you would like to.
Temporal desires may well come from themselves and also from your effort. Sure, you could win the lottery, yet, for the most part, you give forth your energy to fulfill your worldly desires.
Desires often find their way to you. You don’t have to work hard at desiring. Desires can well rush in on their own. You don’t have to hold your desires tightly in your fist. Desires can find their own way. Desiring has a Life of its own.
When you feel desperate, let go of desperation. Look, it is natural for your desires to reach you when you don’t hold on tight to them. Invite rather than command. Greet rather than demand.
There is nothing you have to possess. You just plain don’t. What you have to have is to give freely. When you open all the windows of your heart, what cannot come in for you?
When you look at a sunrise or a sunset, unlike when you gaze upon your once new car, you can feel happiness every time. When you see a field of lavender or pick a flower, Joy is yours. Even though you can gaze upon Nature, Nature is not outside you but within. Fresh air will always give you joy. Nature is not a personal dividend. It is inevitably shared. No one has to ask anyone for permission. Therefore, Joy from Nature is renewable, and you are blessed with Joy every time.
You don’t own a sunrise. It is yours, and it is everyone’s. No one needs to unlock a sunrise. The Sun was never locked. The Sun was always for all. No one has to apply for permission. No one has to pay admission or wait in line. Beloveds, Nature is within you. You are Nature.
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” Heart is the symbol of the rational aspect of man but not the same as intellect. It is a part of the ” universal reason “. The heart has an ” inner eye ” ….. that can perceive reality. However the evil thoughts …. of the lower soul needs ….. of the material world […]
Originally posted on Purplerays: “There is a gem that is rarely seen in the world. This gem is one whose heart is free of desire and is full of love for Truth. Such a One shines with the light and presence of the Lord Supreme. Find Him .. within yourself ….” ~ Mooji ? ?…
Courtesy of https://www.awakeningtoremembering.com/daily-writings/all-continually-re-configures-re-aligns-in-accordance-to-my-souls-code-sequences-now
Coming to UNDERSTAND that one purpose of EVERYTHING is to show you about yourself, which aspects are dominant/prominent and creating your physical reality world.
All will provide enhanced VISION:
Where your heart is/is not fully open
ONENESS Realities are completely from inner sacred respect, honor, compassion, sharing, supporting the new, contributing, openness, higher communication and PURITY OF YOUR OWN HEART AND SOUL
When you go unconscious, you lose the ability to transmit at-will, to shift to higher perspectives and to APPLY/IMPLEMENT higher consciousness MASTERY tools that you’ve REMEMBERED…
NEW EARTH is THE APPLICATION PHASE of all that you know now… all that your heart shows you, all that your higher selves (you) guide you to DO…. the WISDOM (Epiphanies, signs, messages from your soul), all of that which you KNOW INSIDE… you have to APPLY this and implement it in everything that you ARE and DO…. IN-EVERY-MOMENT… completely connected, listening, feeling, being and doing…
NEW Earth is the BE’rs & DO’rs, those stepping up and into their roles here. NEW Earth is you, when you are fully awake and not allowing yourself to go unconscious again…. First you expand your consciousness to REALIZE NEW Earth inside, as you DO, you start to physically experience it, see it, live it… until it’s the only “HOME” you’ve got… magic (miracles) all around you, for YOU are magic again.
You CAN clear emotions (energy) and strong human thoughts (programs) CONSCIOUSLY and INTENTIONALLY… with every part of your BEing… for you must be stronger AS A HIGHER SELF than your human program is… YOU BREAK THE PROGRAMMING from inside… using your inner POWER … for AS LOVE … you are stronger… you hold the KNOWLEDGE that old programs can be re-written, re-coded, re-programmed…. therefore affecting your outside world. The really STRONG PROGRAMS, you have to hold the KNOWING LONG ENOUGH, STRONG ENOUGH for the physical reality you created/allowed to break (reverse-field spin), so that everything can start to go “in the other direction”… in-alignment with your own SOUL…. so that your field can merge, spinning faster to create a new reality for you….
HERE you have the POWER to DO everything from inside of you. Here we do not wait until things happen, we MAKE THEM HAPPEN as higher selves/souls… we have the cap-ABILITIES, because WE ARE the Universe again. No more separation, no more lack, no more stories that create old programmed realities here, no more NEED to keep experiencing unconscious LOOPS… we just step into a new timeline… a million of them…. BECAUSE WE CAN.
Realities are yours loves…. YOU created them…. they manifest according to your own frequencies… if you truly want to understand… you’ll PAY ATTENTION… to the vibration of everything… and you will choose, shift, decide and transform all back into Light…..
NEW Earth is all, as Ascended Masters, you don’t have anyone to “ask” what is “right or wrong or what to do”. You DO all from inside of you. You USE the external to GUIDE YOU, other beings become guides too. They show you about you, provide direction, share higher consciousness wisdom that further activates yours, or trigger an old program you still hold so that you can intentionally purify and cleanse, which is just a part of the process, it does not dictate your world anymore. You honor all releases and give them the attention they need, according to the AMOUNT OF ENERGY held, while staying conscious to this is what you are doing.
Outside is a program that you watch/observe to see, one that BRINGS YOU your desires and dreams and opportUNITIES to clear any remnant programming in your physical body. You see the dimensional markers, decode the programming, compute the ratios, equations and outcomes… all simultaneously, for the crystals in your body process everything for you… information, changing frequencies/transmissions, adapting to each shift, re-calibrating your own Crystalline LightBody Structure, each cell is involved in this. Your whole body becomes a computer processor, where your heart beats throughout your entire being, your existence is as a SUPER HUMAN, SUPER CONSCIOUS, SUPER COMPUTER… all emanating from your heart… your mind supports your heart and they work in tandem, in unison here… your every moment is connected AS the Unified Field and to a Gridwork that is connected through ENERGY….. your body, the earth, the universe, nature, others, every spec… all connected and in-tune… with every breath. When we “go offline” it’s upgrade time, and we honor this. We do not disconnect though, we just minimize our energy processes, rerouting everything to our upgrading body systems until the process is complete. Then we have more abilities to do more, be more, share more, experience more…. dreams, awesomeness, magical amazingness…..
NEW Earth is us, as Light BEings… walking in the physical again…. NEW Earth is PURE LIGHT BEINGS… anchoring, merging, integrating, holding… the gridwork and programming to the hologram in place… with their physical bodies… which is why so many are going through intensity with these upgrades…. everything was in your body…. all of it…. SLEEP allows for the integration of your higher consciousness inside of you, it allows you to clear timelines, activate new ones and merge multiple dimensions in this physical space here. Your actions dictate your waking state and how you experience all… no action is an action too, which creates realities….. There is a difference between no action and consciously choosing what to do/not do. Even BEing is an action, a most important one, a space we must MASTER too. Then we combine DOing and BEing as one state and continually MASTER balancing these, birthing our creations and bringing them into fruition in accordance to our own inner guidance as to HOW we are to fulfill our highest purposes/roles/missions here…
Everything will show you many somethings, if you are truly open to see…. These REVELATIONS are a part of your passage, a part of your constructing of your own RAINBOW BRIDGE to cross over and move around with great ease…
As a HUman STARGate, you have the capability to maneuver between dimensions, back and forth, recognizing all as it presents, understanding the purposes, understanding the points, understanding HOW and WHY things occur…. for they are RESPONSES to your current vibrations/energy/beliefs held and also activating the codes and sequences for your next realities to arrive (materialize) for you. Your EXPANDED CONSCIOUSNESS allows you to anchor and hold them inside of you. You continually activate new by that which you desire and think, by how OPEN YOU ARE and by HOW MUCH you truly DESIRE for your higher realities to become visible. YOU MUST DESIRE THIS with ALL of your HEART and entire BEing…. for it is through this that you can EMBODY your SOUL, all of the gifts, enhancements, infinite abundance of all things again.
Physical REALities SHOW you what you DO desire and don’t. If you are not sure, then a physical reality will show you…. This is just one way we SEE….
Each has to choose, each must commit, each must decide… or the physical reality will do this FOR you, to assist you…. Every moment is like this… and eventually once you’ve chosen enough, in accordance with your own soul, you are living and existing in alignment ALL OF THE TIME…. it IS EASY…. We were the one’s who made it hard, by not choosing our soul first. This is part of the PROCESS of moving out of unconsiousness existence BACK INTO full consciousness again, beyond the matrix of the old. Those times (vibrations) are over (collapsed). Now everyone desiring to remain in a physical body will have to do this… for it is the whole reason each is here. SOUL EMBODIMENT.
NEW EARTH/GALACTIC civilizations are continually being formed here. They have already been constructed and already exist. Each vibrates into those realities physically…. as each chooses to leave the old realities behind/transcends all from within. We do not desire to recreate those unconscious realities for ourselves anymore. The gridwork collapsed, therefore those physical realities CANNOT fully materialize anymore. It will only go so far before it collapses too. It collapses, because it was created out of an unconscious program to start with. Only realities transmitted from PURITY of the SOUL can fully materialize and maintain stability now.
Short-lived realities is the way of Old Earth now. Unconscious programs continually de-materializing. The more separated inside, the stronger the reality is, for human aspects NEED their physical reality to SHOW them, what they were not willing to open their heart/soul to before….
When the heart is fully open, the mind is too, energy relaxes, the physical body relaxes and what you care about changes, your priorities do too, what is important, how you treat others, what you are committed to/worthy of (worth), what you value, what truly matters to you…and it won’t be what you “thought”…. For your Soul’s desires and your human’s desires… these are different, until you’ve merged all of your own aspects and essences into ONE again. Then they are the same, for you don’t hold the separation anymore… You EVOLVE as the PURE NEW EARTH HUman, your whole body goes through a vigorous transformation/reconfiguration and your physical reality does too.
Now (y)our physical body and physical realities continually re-align & re-configure in accordance to (y)our own soul’s codes and sequences, not the other way around. ♥
Get ready loves, we’ve got more everything to do. Jumping HUGE Timelines is a way of Quantum Existence here! I love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu! Have a most magical day. ♥
Lisa Transcendence Brown ☼
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