Aarathi Selvan – 4 Simple Ways to Slow Down So You Don’t Rush Through Life – Tiny Buddha .com

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“If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.” ~Anne Morrow Lindbergh


Throughout my life, a deep voice within has constantly asked me to slow down.

Don’t get me wrong; I thrive when I have deadlines, when I have to push myself to get somewhere. I love being quick in what I do.

However, over the last ten years of living like a workaholic and then having to find a semblance of quiet after the birth of two adorable babies, I have begun to realize that being quick in what we do is in itself not worrisome; feeling rushed is.

I began experimenting with slowing down after several episodes of sickness that resulted from the stress I accumulated in my rushed life.

The struggle between being in ten places at once and being in just one place at one time was immense.

Even today, I still feel the urge to check my mobile and send out a quick email as I walk my little ones to the park. Yet I cannot stand to miss the little tumble walk of my toddler and my big talking kindergartner as I walk with them.

Slowing down just a little has taught me the power of pausing and gathering perspective.

This is an invitation from my deeper self to yours to slow down, just for a few moments, to pause and breathe. Here are four simple ways to do that.

1. Morning drink.

For most of us, the morning tea or coffee has become somewhat of ritual that we rush through. Just for today, allow the morning drink to wake you gently. Sit with it as if you were participating in loving yourself.

Eventually, allow your morning beverage to help you set an intention for your day, gently and with care.

Set an intention about how you want to feel during the day, and after you finish your morning drink, intentionally rise and take good care of the cup that helped you slow down and gather perspective.

2. Write/journal.

Experiment with writing. When you take a few moments of your day to write, you allow for space to pause and reflect. You slow down the speeding thoughts of what is to be and what should have been to accept what is now.

Write about the sense of feeling rushed in your everyday life and how you struggle to balance. Write then about how you yearn to feel and how that life you yearn for can begin now.

3. Pause to observe.

In this moment, pause and look around you.

On the surface of things there might be chaos—the tooting of horns from the street, your children screaming for you, or your coworkers having an argument. Take a deep breath anyway, look around, and see how there is stillness in the objects around you.

The earth that is bearing us; the furniture, still and sturdy; the air, present and quiet. Observe the nature of stillness around you and allow your thoughts and actions to slow down just a little.

4. Embrace now.

In any given moment there are one or more things around us that we like, be it the color of the blinds or people around us that we love. And yet, we are often overwhelmed by the things that happened to us or the things that didn’t happen.

In this moment, identify three things you like. Once you identify them, allow the realization to sink in and enjoy it for a few seconds before you move on. Hence starts the experience of slowing down to embrace now.

Experimenting with slowing down is an invitation to try out living in the now, because honestly, it is a pain to live in the past and too scary to think about the future.

Now is all we’ve got. And experimenting with these practices helps us be everything we want to be in a more quiet, peaceful, and joyful way—in a more present way, with deep intention.

There is utter beauty in taking refuge in our senses, in opening up to the small miracles that we always rush through. Take a day or more to experiment with slowing down and, as difficult as it may be, you’ll find it expands the time that we often think we lack.

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About Aarathi Selvan

Aarathi Selvan is a Psychotherapist, Mindfulness Guide and a Contemplative Artist. She writes and teaches introspective seekers to live intentional lives over at Pause for Perspective. Take her signature free mini course Calm in Every Step at pauseforperspective.com.

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Karen Dover – High Council of Orion – Message to the Peoples of Planet Earth – A New Way of Living and Being – 6-28-14

Karen DoverBeloved ones we are the High Council of Orion and we come to guide and to support as the full extent of TRUTH is now shared at a WORLD level. Those who have walked in the darkness now seeing the LIGHT of TRUTH and those who are locked into the lower dimensional frequencies of the old 3D earth created reality holding on tightly to all that has been TAUGHT to them. We walk with you as you now move in TRUTH to a new reality, a new way of living and of BEing and NEW LIGHT upon the Planet Earth at this time.

Those who have read our words are familiar with our channel and her work, this work will now expand in TRUTH as ALL expand in TRUTH and we guide clearly that the “chaos” that now unfolds at WORLD level is fed ONLY by the teachings of the old 3D earth created reality. You are asked to stand in the LIGHT of TRUTH at all moments of all moments, to embrace the guidance of your SOUL in TRUTH and to understand that that which was created FOR you now dissolves through you, around you and within you.

For many of you the dissolving will be like a walk in a new playground, for others the dissolving will appear to be that which it is not. We guide clearly that the SOUL is now in charge of this your human life experience, the expansion done at human conscious waking mind level allowing the frequencies to embed and anchor fully to cellular level of your BEing at this time.

We send out the TRUTH that IS in the form of the LOVE that IS and we call to the children of ORION to stand fully in the LIGHT of TRUTH. Events will now overtake the human race, events that are the ripples from the dissolving of the old 3d earth created reality in TRUTH.  We guide at all moments of all moments that ALL JUST IS and YOU ARE in TRUTH. The containment of the old 3d earth created reality showing itself in TRUTH will see many attempt to run and hide but the outer waking reality is the construct that you were TAUGHT to reside within, it is YOUr journey alone to dissolve this created reality and this journey is overseen by your SOUL at all moments of all moments. WALK with your SOUL into the LIGHT of TRUTH and understand that the lessons of the old 3d earth created reality are now negated. They serve NO purpose and are but echoes of a construct that no longer serves at any level of your BEing.

That which was LIGHT was always there, hidden by the CONSTRUCT that is the old 3d earth created reality, for those who now wait for the sun to appear in the sky we ask that you look upwards and outwards, for the SUN was always there, you were simply TAUGHT to look to your feet.

Miracles now birth through, around and within the human race in TRUTH as a race that has been kept lowered in frequency now remember who they are in TRUTH and now show TRUTH by LIVING TRUTH.



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